How to Be Social If You’re Shy (SOCIAL DYNAMICS MASTERY) – Ask Harvey #69
f you’ve ever felt shy in social situations, I want you to know this (then watch the video).
I mean, I do talk about it a lot in the video, and the video IS amazing. Genuinely one of a kind.
For now, though, I do want you to know something. Some people consider themselves shy and have made an identity out of it. Others consider themselves shy and feel like they are stuck. OTHERS, feel like they are shy and are completely happy with it.
Generally speaking, shyness has been misdiagnosed.
And the doctor is finally in the house!
SHYNESS IS JUST LACK OF EXPERIENCE.
This reframe is SUPER POWERFUL because when we take a look at it like lack of experience, suddenly it’s something that is easy to break past! Not something that you ARE, but something that you PRACTISE!
Now, here’s the thing. You don’t have to be SUPER SOCIAL to be social. If you want to become more social, the fastest most POWERFUL METHOD is to communicate with people that are easy to speak to.
In fact, I go and take this idea to the next craziest level by calling them “CHAIN REACTIONS,’ and that is something that I use personally do this day.
You see, you don’t always have to be in a social state… you know that feeling when you feel like you can talk to anybody and feel good about it? What is worth knowing, however, is how to get there from ANY emotional state.
This is just one of the superpowers I give to my clients.
SO GUESS WHAT?
This week I dive deeper into this idea with Chain Reactions, Shiness and dealing with yourself more in AN AMAZING NEW YOUTUBE VIDEO!!!
In this video we dive super deep into social skills and I give you some of my personal secrets that I had to learn the hard way! You’re going to want to watch this video because I also dive deep and show you some real-world examples of social skills. It’s what people should be saying about you~