Have you ever thought about how dating games are so confusing?
I mean, you read advice online and it says,
“play games, pull away, fuck with their minds.”
Then you listen to your heart and it says,
“be honest, that’s not me, I’m not a manipulator.”
Well, what the hell is with that?
Why the hell are there so many games that people play in dating?
WELL TIME TO TELL YOU!
DATING GAMES EXIST BECAUSE PEOPLE ARE TOO AFRAID AND THEY WANT AN EASY WAY OUT!
Now, sure, it’s good to have an easy way out, but not at the expense of opening yourself up and doing things the right way!
THE RIGHT WAY:
Like a river.
THE WRONG WAY:
Creating more drama.
Wanting and not acting.
SO DO YOURSELF A FAVOUR TODAY!
LISTEN TO THIS WEEK’S PODCAST.
I talk in great detail about the major games people play as well as why and how they don’t work and understanding the first principle behind it all
AND you’re going to want to book a call for Energetic Coaching. If you miss out this month you miss out. Pain in the ass, goodbye.
Click here to book your call.
I don’t mean that you isolate yourself and hold yourself up in your castle saying to yourself,
“I am my own best friend,”
What I mean is, do you talk to yourself in a way that makes you feel good or do you talk yourself into feeling bad.
What happens is, that often before anybody else can make us feel bad, or done something or said something that can hurt us, WE ARE THE ONES WHO HURT US OURSELVES MORE THAN ANYBODY ELSE.
When you’re in a situation, and you put yourself down, or talk yourself into feeling bad about doing or saying something, you KILL your CONFIDENCE in that area.
You shoot yourself before anybody can.
So, this week, I’ve produced a podcast where we dive in so deep into the thought/feeling patterns that create low self-esteem and what creates high self-esteem.
After a week off, it’s time for episode 74~ NOW ON SPOTIFY~
QUESTION TIME: DO YOU LOVE YOUR PROBLEMS?
I ask you this to challenge you, because some people, just some people, love their problems so much that they create more just to have more problems.
Some people love problems because, at a deep level, it helps them recognise love. That love, to them, is fixing things.
So, I want to talk to you today about love, and how to open yourself up to it in all forms, not just in ways that we think it needs to come.
You see, what I’ve discovered is that people often limit the way that love can come into their life by thinking it only has to come through a certain way.
When we are able to flip that around, we open ourselves to ALL FORMS it can come through, and as a result, we allow ourselves to start getting it through the form that we needed it to come through the most!
In fact, this is what my latest podcast is about, all about love!
On the other hand, when we think it has to come through a certain point, what we end up doing is choking the forms that it can come through. Especially if you’re in a position where the goal just keeps slipping out of your grasp.
That the closer you get to it, the further it just seems to be.
PAINFUL. AS. FUCK. AM I RIGHT?
So, this time, I’ve released a new podcast about this. Where we look at love in all its forms, so you can start bringing it in the form that you need the most!!
I also tell you why I missed last week’s podcast!
I don’t know about you, but it can be so brutally painful when somebody asks for space from you.
They can ask for it and it can feel like an attack. It can feel like they are abandoning you. It can feel like they were tricking you all along, that maybe they were only after one thing. Read More
Do you know why a person might be cold to text you and warm when they text another?
Have you ever been in a situation where it feels like somebody is avoiding or is numb to you, yet they can seem like they have a lot of fun with other people?
I definitely know what that’s like. In fact, it used to plague me all the time. It plagued me because it hurt me as I was trying my hardest.
When you TRY the hardest, that’s often when you get hurt the most. BUT FRET NOT!
Through my pain, I’ve learned what turns it around. It can be as simple as turning on a light switch!
So, what I’ve found, is that the first thing that makes messages be cold towards you (not that they are a bad texter, or anything like that) is that the conversation is VERY VERY LOGICAL!
I find things can be logical, not because of them being logical, but because of the fear we feel. We are afraid, so we don’t follow our heart.
When we don’t follow our heart, what happens? We try and connect with our mind!
Imagine a movie that you watch logically? It’ll probably be boring and un-alluring.
Imagine a movie that you’re just excited to watch? You’ll wait and every time a trailer comes out (a text message) you can’t wait for it.
So that’s my goal with you, if you’d like, to bring you to a point where your man is so excited to text you, and maybe even leads it first!
Wouldn’t that be nice?
So, today I’ve released a new podcast that covers this a hell of a lot more!
In this podcast, we talk a lot more about dating, love and what turning on the light switch so you don’t have to keep stabbing in the dark!