How to Help Those That Don’t Want Help (HMPD #95)
Want to learn how to help those that don’t want to be helped?! Well, the simple answer is not DON’T! Or, YOU CAN’T, because I keep meeting people who feel like that is what they need to do. If that is you, then you’re going to want to listen to this podcast, because I reveal my personal method that helps me help the world while maintaining my sanity!
WHY HELP PEOPLE WHO DON’T WANT TO BE HELPED
Ok, let’s get serious. There are some people who feel like they need to help others. If this is the case, then it is your lot in life. Not your fate, but an expression of who you are. It is in your nature, and if so, that is to be respected!
So, how do you help somebody who doesn’t want to be helped? Lead by example! Make your world sweeter! Do it for yourself, not just for them, but for yourself.
See, too many people try and help others because they feel uncomfortable not doing so. It is then, that the other person feels that your help isn’t genuine. That you aren’t trying to work with them, but you’re really doing that as an attempt to help yourself!
WHY DOES LEADING BY EXAMPLE WORK?
Leading by example works because it works on multiple levels. Not only do you set a good example, but you also embody that what is exactly what you would like them to experience!
If you want them to see their value, then clearly you seeing your value is a great example of a person who does that! Then they get to see what a person with high self-esteem looks like, and isn’t that fantastic! I don’t know about you, that’s pretty fantastic to me!
Thanks for listening in advance!