LOVESHIFT – How Standards Can Create a Relationship Worthwhile – HMDP #13

If you want to shift your love, then you have to shift your standards.

I find that most people settle in relationships. They settle for “fine” or “average” because they don’t physically believe that there’s MORE out there!

They don’t physically believe that they can have an incredible relationship. If you take the time now (and WRITE IT DOWN) to rate your current relationship (or if you’re single, your happiness) out of 10?

Most people who don’t have a 10 think that having a 10 relationship is a pipe dream.

They say “well, you know, you can’t be happy all the time” and sure there are speed bumps in any relationship, BUT, you there are ways that you can LOVE the bumps!

It’s the same difference between somebody who hates their job and those who truly love their jobs! The people who hate it say “well, you can’t really love your work” and those who are the most successful say “HOLY HELL, I LOVE MY WORK!”

This is the key difference, the BELIEFS.


Creating a shift in your standards. Making the shift that even though you might not even BELIEVE that a 10 relationship is possible, you’re going to have that in the future no. matter. what.