Self-Worth, Confidence + Ugly Jealousy – HMDP #70
Yes, I said it. Stop chasing self-love and confidence. It’s a side effect. It’s not the goal itself. That’s like wanting to throw an event but really you want to throw an event because of a reason.
It’s like cutting down a tree when what you really want is a log house. You’ll cut one down, in the process of creating the house.
So I want you, just for while you listen to my latest podcast, to give up on self-love and confidence. Just humour me, afterwards, you can go back to it.
Most of the time the game of self-love can lead people down a path of internal pain, because it becomes something they have to do, not what they are.
Now that you’ve given up on it, listen to this podcast. In this podcast, we talk about the true self-confidence. We can talk about true self-worth. We will also talk about jealousy because it is a massively misunderstood emotion. It can be your greatest friend if you let it be.